Wednesday, July 1, 2009

Dost

The gift of true friendship is that it takes us by the hand and reminds us,we are not alone in the journey of life,

Life is nothing without friendship because it's only in this relationship that one has the freedom to be oneself.

When friendship is once rooted deeply,no storm can uproot it.




Friends ...... They love you,
but they are not your lover
They care for you, but they are not from your familyThey are ready to share your pain, but they are not in your blood relation. They are........FRIENDS!!!!!


No bodies are there with them , their lonely and too old at that time ,
BUT
still love is with them and, that's end of life both of them
that's the thing
I mean That is love
love is not WORD
It's a Life , sacrifise and understading
I thought like that
Thank YOU
My thought:
IAM NOT A LOSER ,IAM NOT A WINNER ,IAM A TRIER!!!
TRYING TO ACHIEVE EVERYTIME “SOMETHING” IN MY LIFE.
WAT ABOUT U…………………………..?



=:LIFE THEORY:=

1. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return. But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.2. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.3. The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.4. It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.5. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone-but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.6. Don't go for looks, they can deceive. Don't go for wealth, even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.7. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go, be what you want to be. Because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.8. Always put yourself in the other's shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.9. A careless word may kindle strife. A cruel word may wreck a life. A timely word may level stress. But a loving word may heal and bless.10. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.11. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with a tear. When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die,you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying...


















Friends never hard to find...... Friends so quickly come And friends sometimes go But if a friendship is true It will always continue to grow. For the qualities of a friend are too many to describe, But one thing is certain They're never hard to find. Always remember that Friends have feelings too, Don't forget little things that matter Like saying please, and thank you. They often do so much To help us out everyday, Which is definitely why Friends are needed in every way.
So take not for granted The qualities of your friends, For you never know When you may see them again.

Infatuation Vs Love

11 signs that you are in loveELEVEN:You walk really slow when you're with him/her.TEN:You feel shy whenever he/she's around.NINE:You smile when you hear his/her voice.EIGHT:When you look at him/her, you can't see the otherPeople around you, you just see him/her.SIX:He/She is all you think about.FIVE:You realize you're always smiling when you'reLooking at him/her.FOUR:You would do anything for him/her, just to see him/her.THREE:While reading this, there was one person on yourMind this whole time.TWO:You were so busy thinking about that person, You didn't notice number seven was missingONE:You just scrolled up to check & are now silentlyLaughing at yourself.

Infatuation is the initial, instant attraction and intense desire for a person of the opposite sex.Love is a friendship that has caught fire. It takes root, develops and grows one day at a time. The process is slow.
Infatuation lacks confidence. When he/she is away you wonder if he/she is cheating you. Sometimes you check perhaps even discreetly.Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. Your beloved feels the same also and this makes both even more trustworthy.


Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager, but not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions or some unclear actions about your beloved that you would not like to examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.Love is quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by his/her presence even when he/she is away. Miles of distance do not separate you. You want him/her nearer, but near or far, you know he/she is yours and you can wait.
Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. If you are honest, you can admit it is difficult to be in one another's company, for the underlying fear that it will end in intimacy.Love is the maturation of friendship. You are confident that you must be friends before you can be lovers.
Infatuation is usually temporary and eventually fades. It, however, might lead you to do things you will regret later, but love never will.Love is an upper. It makes you look up. Love usually lasts longer and goes deeper than strong sexual Feelings. It makes you think up and makes you a better person.
Infatuation makes you feel anxious, nervous and jealous. You feel convinced that you can't live without the other person. You are unable to see the person for who they really are because he/she is perfect in your eyes.Love makes you feel excited. You are willing to respect the other person's opinions and accept the good or bad qualities. You share similar values and beliefs and you see the person for who they really are.
Infatuation says, "We must get married right away! I can't risk losing you!"Love says, "Be patient. Do not panic. Plan your future with confidence. There are rewards in waiting."

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What does it mean to you to live an easy life? Do you
envision a life on the beach or around a pool, surrounded by
everything you need for relaxation and entertainment? I’m
talking about something else--to me, an Easy Life means a
life that is easy to live--a life without struggle or
hardship--a life that flows naturally through its cycles--
including pain as well as joy, perspiration along with
relaxation, and death as well as birth.

The Easy Life requires energy expenditures--often very large
and challenging energy expenditures. The Easy Life is not a
life without effort and perspiration. You know what I mean--
you’ve worked very hard at times yet felt no stress, nor
struggle. Perhaps you experienced this in sports
competitions, or in exercising, or in a very challenging
project requiring long hours of labor. These efforts, though
challenging, were also easy, in that they felt a natural
part of your life.

Life can be easy and each of us can live a life that feels
easy--even when life brings us difficulty. The ten steps I
list below are my view of the steps to a life without
struggle--the Easy Life. Only the first is in priority
order--without it, none of the other steps will have the
desired impact. I’ll amplify each of the ten steps in future
articles. For now, briefly stated, here are my Ten Steps to
an Easy Life.

1. Know that an Easy Life, a life without struggle, is not
only possible, but is natural. If you do not intuitively
know this to be true, or know that an Easy Life is within
your grasp, your life will, indeed, be a struggle. This is a
fundamental sponsoring thought--life is either easy or
difficult--you choose it and then you get it.

2. Understand yourself--recognize your calling in life and
live it in all possible ways. Do what you love and love what
you do.

3. Spend less than you earn--live within your ability to
earn while honoring your calling in life.

4. Feel your fundamental connection to all people, all
living things, the earth, and the Universe. You are not
alone--never have been, never will be.

5. Judge nothing--no event, no circumstance of life, and no
other person--regardless of how foreign the observation may
be to you. Know that every being is being who they must be
at this time--and doing their very best at it.

6. Live with intentions, but embrace and honor what shows
up. Know that each event, each circumstance, and each person
appearing in your life is a gift to you--receive it
graciously. Know that the value of each gift depends on how
you choose to accept and utilize it.

7. Love fully and unconditionally. Unconditionally love all
beings--including your self--all living things, all animate
and inanimate objects. Love simply because love is the
essence of life, the source of life’s joy, and because you
choose to love.

8. Know there is enough of all of our precious resources for
everyone--enough money, food, land, and love. Give
generously of your treasures and your special skills.
Compete with another only when both parties agree that a
competition will be great fun--never compete under other
circumstances.

9. Live in the present moment. Learn from past behaviors,
but harbor no guilt, regret, or resentment. Anticipate the
future for the adventure it will surely bring. But live
now--for now is all you really have.

10. Know that the joy you seek is already with you--deep
within you, not outside of you where you’ve been seeking it.
Joy will manifest itself in your relationships, but the
source of joy is within you. Regularly achieve a quiet mind
through meditation and meet a wonderful soul--you