Wednesday, July 1, 2009

Dost

The gift of true friendship is that it takes us by the hand and reminds us,we are not alone in the journey of life,

Life is nothing without friendship because it's only in this relationship that one has the freedom to be oneself.

When friendship is once rooted deeply,no storm can uproot it.




Friends ...... They love you,
but they are not your lover
They care for you, but they are not from your familyThey are ready to share your pain, but they are not in your blood relation. They are........FRIENDS!!!!!


No bodies are there with them , their lonely and too old at that time ,
BUT
still love is with them and, that's end of life both of them
that's the thing
I mean That is love
love is not WORD
It's a Life , sacrifise and understading
I thought like that
Thank YOU
My thought:
IAM NOT A LOSER ,IAM NOT A WINNER ,IAM A TRIER!!!
TRYING TO ACHIEVE EVERYTIME “SOMETHING” IN MY LIFE.
WAT ABOUT U…………………………..?



=:LIFE THEORY:=

1. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return. But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.2. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.3. The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.4. It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.5. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone-but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.6. Don't go for looks, they can deceive. Don't go for wealth, even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.7. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go, be what you want to be. Because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.8. Always put yourself in the other's shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.9. A careless word may kindle strife. A cruel word may wreck a life. A timely word may level stress. But a loving word may heal and bless.10. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.11. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with a tear. When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die,you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying...


















Friends never hard to find...... Friends so quickly come And friends sometimes go But if a friendship is true It will always continue to grow. For the qualities of a friend are too many to describe, But one thing is certain They're never hard to find. Always remember that Friends have feelings too, Don't forget little things that matter Like saying please, and thank you. They often do so much To help us out everyday, Which is definitely why Friends are needed in every way.
So take not for granted The qualities of your friends, For you never know When you may see them again.

Infatuation Vs Love

11 signs that you are in loveELEVEN:You walk really slow when you're with him/her.TEN:You feel shy whenever he/she's around.NINE:You smile when you hear his/her voice.EIGHT:When you look at him/her, you can't see the otherPeople around you, you just see him/her.SIX:He/She is all you think about.FIVE:You realize you're always smiling when you'reLooking at him/her.FOUR:You would do anything for him/her, just to see him/her.THREE:While reading this, there was one person on yourMind this whole time.TWO:You were so busy thinking about that person, You didn't notice number seven was missingONE:You just scrolled up to check & are now silentlyLaughing at yourself.

Infatuation is the initial, instant attraction and intense desire for a person of the opposite sex.Love is a friendship that has caught fire. It takes root, develops and grows one day at a time. The process is slow.
Infatuation lacks confidence. When he/she is away you wonder if he/she is cheating you. Sometimes you check perhaps even discreetly.Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. Your beloved feels the same also and this makes both even more trustworthy.


Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager, but not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions or some unclear actions about your beloved that you would not like to examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.Love is quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by his/her presence even when he/she is away. Miles of distance do not separate you. You want him/her nearer, but near or far, you know he/she is yours and you can wait.
Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. If you are honest, you can admit it is difficult to be in one another's company, for the underlying fear that it will end in intimacy.Love is the maturation of friendship. You are confident that you must be friends before you can be lovers.
Infatuation is usually temporary and eventually fades. It, however, might lead you to do things you will regret later, but love never will.Love is an upper. It makes you look up. Love usually lasts longer and goes deeper than strong sexual Feelings. It makes you think up and makes you a better person.
Infatuation makes you feel anxious, nervous and jealous. You feel convinced that you can't live without the other person. You are unable to see the person for who they really are because he/she is perfect in your eyes.Love makes you feel excited. You are willing to respect the other person's opinions and accept the good or bad qualities. You share similar values and beliefs and you see the person for who they really are.
Infatuation says, "We must get married right away! I can't risk losing you!"Love says, "Be patient. Do not panic. Plan your future with confidence. There are rewards in waiting."

FRIENDSHIPP

I gave my heart to youI set my standards highI laid my eyes on you,I laughed and cried with you,I told you my hopes and dreams,My Love and Fears.My tears I shed all over your shoulder.In the end,I came to see that you werethe only guy I could ever trust.When I see you,my face lights up with aspiration, and happiness.When we talk, I can feel the load unloadwith soothing words from you.I have the feeling of love in my heart.In my mind, I say "You don't mean a thing. "In my words, I say "You are just a friend. "But in the deep end of my heart,I think of only youWhen I tell you my expectations of a guy,You tell me never to fall short of what I want.But only one thing stands in the way -You are a friend.Can I still love you the way that I do?